I am compulsive about very small and insignificant things. I re-arrange the dishes in the dishwasher if anyone else has loaded it. I wash the dishes before I allow them to go into the dishwasher. Each pocket in the silverware holder has its assigned items: forks in one; teaspoons in one; soup and larger spoons in one; knives in another; and serving utensils in the largest pocket.
Furthermore, I am extremely perturbed at those who just willy-nilly throw dishes in the dishwasher, and with food clinging to the dishes.